1 June, Saturday | 宝贝 picked out a place for our lunch today and made a reservation for Sun with Moon, at Wheelock Place, and I loved it!!!!!
Their jap food is so good, and because the last time I said I like Jap food so he chose this for this special day! (v sweet la)
Then we walked to Centrepoint to shop at Decathlon for his new duffel bag. Once we were done, I thought we had to rush over to buy movie tickets, but he told me he went earlier today and got it le
This is the first time we went to 看戏 together and I am elated!!!!! We watched the Twilight of the Warriors: Walled In! (we got nacho cheese)
It was quite violent but my biggest takeaway is I will be so happy watching TV, movies or anything with this man, for the rest of our lives.
We had dinner at Mamma Mia (the second time we had two meals together in a day):
And talked more about family shenanigans
When I went to pay, he took out a paper bag filled with some items:
TQ for getting me zam buk and matcha latte chocolate!
(is what I need and what I like)
His jie also gave me the Ricola drink from her business trip, woohoo
I had an enjoyable and happy day, laughing at the most unexpected things - his "stop stop stop" when we were looking at traffic police preparing for VIP car 😂
He makes me laugh so effortlessly hehe, and thank you so much, my love for everything 😘
Happy first Monthsary ❤️
(Sad that we didn’t have a photo together today :/ )
I got him cookies from Tokyo Milk Cheese Factory to go with the love letter I wrote him~
(hope he GDLL HAHAHA)
2 June, Sunday | Apple and I went to Genki Sushi, it has been so long since we met la, the food got smaller tho…
Planning in progress
(featuring latte art)
We saw they had new food items so we tried it for our dinner:
We are meeting again next week, as we still have some items to complete.
3 June, Monday | Finally H is back from his reservist, so I hand things back to him and can focus on my Fee Revision work!
(I got help him with some drafts as it must be overwhelming to return from 1 week leave HAHA)
I felt like it was time and also work-wise appropriate for me to take leave to rest hahaha, so I took FCL tomorrow~
Fat fat and I ate Old Street BKT:
Then met the rest of the family for the Garfield Movie!!!!!!
4 June, Tuesday | Feels very shuang to be on FCL!!!!!!!
(宝贝 caught Covid 😭)
5 June, Wednesday | H is on CCL, and the next two days on AL to go Malaysia with family, so 2 FTE work is on my shoulders once again…
I thought I would return feeling recharged but I came back from leave to one of the most tiring days of my life…
I was clearing cases and doing the MP appeal letters, as Faridah was also swarmed with covering Sleeping P’s duties.
I worked on FC files too
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Not sure if it is because my period is coming soon, I was so annoyed and irritated for the whole of today, and Grandma and Aunt forcing us to bring things home and eat more, made me so mad
6 June, Thursday | (relatively uneventful WFH day)
7 June, Friday | Fat fat bought 7 Eleven Chicken Breast for me, it is a new flavor!
Today I want to finish work and leave!!!!!!
(time please pass quickly!)
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Fat fat and I ate at Maccha House before we went for tui na, very pain leh
9 June, Sunday | Apple and I had Astons for lunch before we went to buy Swiss roll from Rich and Good!!!! (they are so rich and so good)
Then we started our itinerary work with a nice cup of their latte!
I saw someone who looks pretty familiar at Acoustic Coffee and it is indeed Pris!!!!! Here is our taking picture of each other from tables away 😂
(then we planned a group meet-up for early July!)
It was our last session of planning le, and I felt kinda sad as I enjoyed every session together with Apple 💕
We discussed to visit the other outlet of Acoustic Coffee some other time~
I also bought their body wash from Pine and Co, so I am excited to use it hehehe
10 June, Monday | (back to office - missing content)
11 June, Tuesday | Grandma fell today, and my parents were with her at SGH past midnight. Fat Fat and I went to eat dinner at Paya Lebar before heading home.
12 June, Wednesday | Today is the first day H starts his WFH, and I don’t know it escalated to asking me to do his work (print out letter)!!!!! I followed up with an email to explain that he should print it himself when he is back, coverage of duties applies to urgent leave/ absence and not situations where staff WFH (then might as well not let you WFH)
13 June, Thursday | I can’t recall much about work duties, as this evening Bili and I will pick Grandma up from SGH. I was worried about her, like getting on and off the car etc when we took her home, and her daily activities moving forth ):
14 June, Friday | Feeling exhausted from yesterday’s events, I was not in a good mood but after some time, I am better.
I was trying to finish some of my work so that next week can focus on MIC!!!!!
K and I had lunch with new staff, ZY today and he told us quite a lot of juicy details about his dating life hahaha
(I like that he is very open about these things, and I believe he would be a good company)
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After work, I went to City Square Mall to look for a tongue cleaner that does not require two hands to operate, and also an arm sleeve from Uniqlo but that failed…
I went to Grandma’s and did a quick check on her before heading home for dinner.
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I felt hurt hearing him say “minus points for me”, it sounded like he didn’t take my feelings seriously. He explained, that he really is not a good boyfriend and so 真的很扣分
I ended up in tears 😭
After being upset and overly emotional the past few days, I know he doesn't mean things the way I felt/interpreted and simply doesn't express himself well, and I should have been more understanding and listened more with my heart
I felt more awful when I was upset with him 😢 I know my 扣分 boyfriend always does his best to make me happy and would have considered my feelings 3 steps ahead (if the situation was anticipated). He has a heart of goodness!!!!!!
Sorry for being such a cranky brat and we talked about smoothing things out tomorrow while holding hands (+ hug too)
15 June, Saturday | I met 宝贝 at Sembawang MRT at 3.15 pm to buy snacks together for CG session later. While we went looking for items, I kept wanting to hug him to apologise for everything, even though we agreed he could have done better hah
His voice also sounded different so I got worried, was it because he is still recovering from Covid ):
CG session was not bad today, even though two couldn’t join us due to a falling tooth emergency. We also talked about our relationship with God during the session, and if we listened to the boss in our life.
宝贝 and I travelled on the train to City Hall, and we looked up food to eat at City Hall and we did our little apology here. I was surprised the train was pretty empty~
Felt like we were the only two people in this space, and I was caressing his hand, palm and fingers. I think I saw he almost fell asleep, it is okay if he sleeps because in the future we will have more of such moments, caressing until he sleeps 😬
He made sure we bought the plasters I needed for my leg before we went for dinner. We had Zok Noodles:
Hehe, always happy eating with you~
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I LIGHT
We have nice selfies, but the pictures people took for us, are not nice :/
We talked about little things here and there. He applied for NDP tickets X2 for the actual day and I even asked a silly question, if he ballot for 2 tickets, to go with me hahaha
“ah then if not go with who”
So cute hehe, I hope he gets the tickets so we can spend the National Day together this year ❤️
I gave him a little kiss on his hand before we parted hehe, gonna give him more kisses!!!!
17 June, Monday | It is a Public Holiday today!!!!!! After discussing, 宝贝 and I decided to try Slow Bakes! I am excited to enjoy toast with a good view of Yishun Pond, but yes, I need to travel to Yishun…
Peaceful~
We walked around the pond later on. We saw otters on the way, and sat in a garden area to chat more about church camp adventures!
Then we returned to Northpoint, and I bought a green Airism shirt from Uniqlo, to prepare for early morning walks with 宝贝 + beach cleaning on the 29th!
18 June, Tuesday | H is on leave today, so I hope that I can focus on my work and make it through today 🙏🏻
Suddenly, I realised that to ensure we got this year’s fee creep covered, I have to run through all the data tables, code by code to adjust PF accordingly!!!!! IT IS A LOT OF WORK, that requires heavy brain power ):
19 June, Wednesday | I finished up the GYN data work yesterday after extracting additional data, today I met K to update her, and then tomorrow do it again with my boss.
We also covered the proposed % increase for data tables and rationale, if all is agreeable by my boss, I will work on the data files tomorrow.
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I had dinner with friends at Buta Kizoku:
We went for dessert too!
20 June, Thursday | WFH is necessary, I was exhausted from work already even though it was a shorter week…
At 11 am, I had the Teams meeting with my boss and K to run through GYN review findings and the proposed changes for FC data tables! He has some further queries and I need to drill deeper, no idea how but I will get there somehow…
I spent the afternoon preparing the FC table files, checked counsel codes and made notes for items that require follow-up later on. It was rather stressful but listening to Paul Kim’s Hey, kept my mind on my love!
All the good feelings/confessions now hit differently with 宝贝 in my life!!!!!
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I went back to Q&M for my regular scaling and polishing and I don’t think I am ever returning to Nuffield (for the lower cost).
Then I went to Grandma’s to visit and see if she was adjusting well with the cast on her left arm.
21 June, Friday | K is not well so we postponed our GYN discussion to another date/time, I guess I have to think through things on my own first then…
I completed all the data loading before noon and was able to give the relevant stakeholder (who was chasing me) an update by noon YAY
I managed to get started on Hernia EBS and cleared drafts for H, it was a fruitful day mainly because I have exciting plans with YT tonight:
Yakiniku Go Plus
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Buy or don’t buy?
22 June, Saturday | Today is our first early morning date at Fort Canning! 宝贝 found some free tours that we can join, to learn about the history of the spice trade and spices:
(doggo!!)
Before the tour, we wanted t walk around on our own and take nice pictures, but it was raining so we ended up at Plaza Singapura Kopitiam for drinks! I got bread for us to eat together hehe (think he likes the idea)
After the tour, we travelled to Golden Mile Hawker for lunch! Dining here with memories of coming with my family many years before, made me realised I always didn’t know what places are called, when my dad drove to these places.
We then went to a nearby Yakun for coffee, before we went home! Today I noticed 宝贝 looked extra 帅 (is it the broad shoulders!!)
24 June, Monday | (missing content)
After work, Fat Fat and I went for our scalp treatment appointment then we had dinner, before heading home.
25 June, Tuesday | After a change in RO, I felt more alone when handling FC things (part of me liked doing things alone heh), K is not experienced in this domain and does not give me any support, nor make decisions. I get so frustrated at times because there isn’t a clear direction, so no matter what I do, I am not able to meet the unclear objectives…
When I asked her to discuss this (as I need the objective to be clear), she was unwell last week and then she is not available this week. She also didn’t give me an alternate date and time.
I learnt only this week, that K needs to present the findings for this task at a senior management meeting, she also just found out. After this, she started to be more engaged.
It is a waste of my effort when I do the analysis and it is not what they want. Then I have to rework the data…
My boss wasn’t in a good mood today, and was angsty. He said he would look through the data later and see what my department can share at the meeting.
I felt like this piece of work is not my focus la, and the reason for AR could be other factors, but I felt like the answer they want is to say it is FC, so that we can adjust the amounts to suit what the bosses want to see.
After our discussion with the boss, I went to pivot the data, including the total outstanding and present them in a table. My boss finally seemed happier LOL
I completed the remaining parts after I was done with lunch. Then I got time to figure out the other things I had on hand.
Another rant topic is how decisions are made without consideration for the team 😤
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I went for facial (just in time for this Saturday’s important event). Then, I went Pedro to shop for my new cardholder and got 宝贝 a new wallet (his review: he is not satisfied with the wallet as many card holding slots but he doesn’t have any card, now all electronic le)
26 June, Wednesday | We had our department meeting today (after three or four rescheduling), it was an alright one.
I went for lunch with ZY and IT staff at the salad place! Initially, I thought It might be slightly awkward but things were great though, we can chat heh
I was done adjusting the consult fee and decided to load it today before I leave for the day!
27 June, Thursday | Today I WFH, but only managed to do chatlog review HW in the afternoon. I was busy working on Plastic data as I want to load it before 1 July. I gave H the assignment on Monday but he has not mentioned anything to me so far…
While I was rushing for time, I got an email for estimation 😭
28 June, Friday | I spent my early morning at work, reading up on a past case and working out the data for the request I received yesterday.
Then firming up the last file I wanted to load onto our site today! I loaded all thirteen files right before I left the office YAYYYYY
We had our chatbot meeting from 1030 to 1130, then a sharing session by vendor until 1240 pm. At 1230 pm, I just pang and went lunch with K.
Today, I am still wrapping up the fee creep things to prepare for 1 July, and then I got an email chaser, asking for updates.
(hello, I am not even done with whatever is before her request, HELPS)
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I went to buy Swiss rolls from Rich and Good! I dropped off 1 roll at Grandma’s then went home for dinner. I managed to squeeze in a swim time!!!!
(Also, I was feeling nervous about tomorrow’s dinner with 宝贝’s family)
29 June, Saturday | The sky was bright and beautiful this morning when I left my house, but after we had bread and coffee at Kopitam, it was raining heavily outside HAHAHAHA (I still told 宝贝 I prefer that it rains, simi sai)
We ended up largely indoors for the Fort Canning Hill tour ):
When we had to walk outside with wet grounds, and intermittent heavy rain, 宝贝 held my hand with one, and his other hand held the umbrella 💕
I felt bad and told him, it was okay but he was so worried about me slipping (in the pair of slippery running shoes). He is so sweet!!!!! I know 他很疼我😘
After the walk, we ate at Pocha and I noticed he looked slightly grumpy…
After we parted at the MRT platform, he finally revealed why he was grumpy after I texted him about our wet clothes. He was upset because he saw how wet my sleeves were, and felt that he didn’t shelter me enough
(really is my silly puppy, he is so pure and cute!!)
He thanked me for the wallet and suggested not to get him any gifts for his birthday, and wanted to get me vouchers to get a better pair of shoes! The pair I was wearing is meant for exercise leh, from New Balance wor
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Hours later, it was time to make my way to the dinner venue and throughout the journey time, I was nervous and sweating so much…
Dinner with 胡家 was nice and homely!!!!!
His mother asked him to pack some snacks for me to take home, besides giving to his sister.
Thankfully I got the Swiss roll, if not we would look bad for not bringing anything hah
His family also insisted that he send me home, so we walked to Lavender MRT and then to Kallang, the whole time we held hands!
We were right outside my house's back gate, and we hugged properly this time ❤️ I like how he put his arm around me, and the eye contact throughout that moment. I saw his eyes sparkle, and asked him another day about it, he said he wasn’t thinking about anything, he saw me smile!
(my heart melted)
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